If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands!

Is you're happy and you know it, clap your hands!

STOP. Stop worrying.

I bet you right now, there is something you are worrying about , whether it being a big or a small thing, It’s making you worry and for some people, like crazy.

Everyone worries about nearly everything including myself.  But when I look at this diagram, it make me realize there is no point in worrying. You’r just wasting your energy worrying about something you can’t or can change, making the whole worrying process utterly pointless.

I know this sounds rather corny, but this whole process of asking yourself if you have problems and the two very straight forward final outcomes have really made me happier than I was before. It helps me accept things and learn that things happen and sometimes you just can’t do anything about it which proves me that there is no point in worrying. It just damages you physically and mentally.

Don’t do it.

It’s not worth your time.

 

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The ugly truth.

The ugly truth.

This just follows up well to my complaints in my previous post 。^‿^。
Hope is ‘opens’ your eyes if your addicted to social media (phones and all)
I hope you guys found it easier to read because of the way these information are laid out because I do 🙂
Your awesome for making it all the way down here.

”I’m addicted to you”-Avicii

I’m not going to lie. I hated it when my friends had smartphones while I didn’t. My friends with smartphones would have more things to ‘talk’ about because they could do the same things together while I would have to sit in the sidelines and just watch them.
Every time I see a kid younger than me with their head sucked into a little screen, I tend to be amused. I tend to be sad at the same time for me and the kid.

Watching this video, it just makes me more depressed about life because all of it is true. We live in a technology consumed society. It’s ridiculously hard to believe that people in the past used to live without internet while for others it’s phones or both.

I absolutely hate it when I meet up with my friend and all she does is go on her phone. She just sits there scrolling and watching pointless videos while I’m there waiting to see if she even realizes I’m still there!

The thing is, I got a smartphone recently myself and because I didn’t have a phone before, it was like jumping into an entirely new world.  The weird and crazy apps that are floating about in the app store. The fact that I could send messages to my sister through viber instantly, it was and still is fascinating for me.  I sound like I live in a cave…-_- I’m not addicted to my phone…yet, I’ll say yet because I don’t know what will happen in the future but I hope I never reach the ‘yet’.

To some extent I think that people use their phones in the streets to show that they aren’t ‘lonely’.  My friend from earlier, she is always on her phone when she is waiting for me to arrive so we can go to school together. I mean I get that but at least put it away and TALK to me when I come round to your house. Sometimes I thinks it’s her excuse for not talking to me because we have nothing to talk about.

What is really funny is that people have confessed that they rarely make any actual calls on their phones which kind of destroys the whole purpose of having a phone \(*-*)/ My mind just kind of explodes after that. There is no point in living any more =_=”

Smartphones are like drugs now a days, you’ll become addicted (‘let me just quickly check my tumblr, then my facebook, then my instagram, ok I’m done…wait no!’)  and you will have withdrawal symptoms like ‘I can’t live without my phone’ and some people respond with aggression…scary.

I don’t really have any more to write/say..for now.., it’s just the fact that watching this video kind of frightens me because all of it is the truth. The truth sure is scary.

GOOOAAALLLL!…..I need a goal.

I need goals. Everyone needs goals.

I REALLY desperately need goals.

Goals aren’t suppose to be easy but they can or should be fun 🙂 Obviously to get where you want (your goal) your going to have to work hard and commit to it whether it is long term or short term.

The importance of setting a goal:

-It give you something to be focused on.

I don’t know if it is just me, but I really like being busy with short breaks now and then. When I have nothing to do, I feel useless and that every single thing I do has no meaning to it and that I’m wasting my time.  When I have a goal, I can vision what I need to do and why. Like recently, I had my end of year tests and I studied with dedication because I had a lot to catch up on and I wanted to do well in my new school.

-It give you a sense of purpose.

I would like to say that only recently I have felt like I had no purpose being alive but It’s not. Every long holidays, regardless of what I’m doing, I feel it all adds up to nothing. Absolutely and utterly nothing. And I think it’s true because I spend most of my time watching animes, Korean drama, tv sit-cons and reading mangas.  Your probably thinking “well obviously, since your doing those things” but I just cannot help it. Just saying, I’m not some idiot, I do good in school, I swear 🙂 It’s pretty addicting. I sometimes even feel like I have some addiction problem with those things and so I keep my distance for a while. Any-who,If I have a goal and I work towards it, I will be able to take short breaks where I can do those things. I need to balance things out in my life.

-It’s pure motivation

When you know what you want and you know you want it desperately, it can be your fuel that drives you to new opportunities and dreams. It motivates you to keep going. And just like any fuels, it will run out so you need to keep refilling it. You need to keep peering at your goal and you must understand why you are doing what you are doing. Sometimes you just need some really cheesy way of inspiring you such as music or those seriously deep quotes that sometimes make your heart turn into a raisin or those that shatter that glass in your head that was sugar coating everything.

Obviously there are more benefits in having a goal, but that’s all I need to keep me going 😀

Go out there and make some goals peeps!

Here is the whole ‘smart goal’ thing \( ‘ U ‘ ) /